Dreams

So I’ve been going through some kind of strange, personal evolution as of late. Before, I never really looked forward to the future. I had gotten so used to my crippling social anxiety that I just assumed I wouldn’t ever be able to do many of the things that I wanted to do. So I’ve been living a half life for years; meandering from one day to the next, never venturing outside of my comfort zone.

I have a looooog way to go, but I’m feeling optimistic and I thought that for fun I would list some of the things that I’ve always wanted to do but couldn’t because my social anxiety held me back,

So for fun I thought I’d write down some of the things that I want to do; stuff I didn’t think I could do before because of my anxiety, stuff I didn’t even know I wanted to do before I embraced the female part of me and then just other random stuff. Some of these are also just going to be wishful thinking, but a girl can dream can’t she?

I want to – 

Learn a foreign language (Prob Spanish but French would be cool too)

See the ruins of Chitiniza again

Live in Seattle Washington

Go camping by myself, and just to go camping more frequently in general

Learn to kayak, and then do it regularly

Live in a comfy cabin on a lake in a rural area

Learn to fish like a boss

Go to movies and eat at restaurants by myself

Take a month off to travel around the country

Go to Europe!!!

Visit Japan again, especially Hakone where I had one of the most amazing experiences of my life

Ride a horse

Date a man

Get a dog

Have kids

Keep a house

Transition

Have a large garden

OK, I fucking have to stop here. This is the shit that it keeps fucking coming back to, over and fucking over again.

I’m really frustrated. I don’t really know what else to say. Sorry this entry got so depressing.

Paige

Note – I wrote this earlier in the day. I'm going to do a follow-up post later after some very heavy thinking.  I can't keep doing this to myself.